Homeschooling’s Two for One Deal
May 18th, 2006 at 7:41 pm (Actual Educational Stuff)
A few weeks ago some women and I in my neighborhood Bible study were joking about how much more relaxed we get with each additional kid. The first you worried about every passing germ, meticulously scheduled every meal, worked on the ABCs before she turned One, and used diaper changing time to practice counting to 10, 20 or 30. One woman with 4 children joked, “Now we’re just glad Joe (#4) is talking and gets some food every once in a while.”
We can all relate in some way I suppose. But one of the nicest things I found recently is that I don’t NEED to be as… shall we say focused? - on teaching Lydia things as I was with KTRose much of the time. She seems to pick up these things by osmosis.
With KTRose we worked and worked on counting items. I could tell you (then, not anymore of course as each additional kids does, I think, take up space in memory) the date and time she counted 4 items, or 8 items. Each one was a milestone to be chronicled and emailed to grandparents. It changes with Lydia, being the second child - sorry sweetie!
The other day I was visiting with a friend and she asked Lydia how many little play horses she had. Lydia starts, “One, two, three, four…” touching each one as she goes and finishing up with, “twelve, thirteen, fourteen!” And she was right. I’m thinking, “Nice. Wonder when she picked that up?”
Of course, the answer is sitting on my lap or beside me doing a puzzle when KTRose and I are working on math. I was reviewing phonics with KTRose sitting on my left, and Lydia was on my right piping in, echoing KTRose’s answers. And yes, she can get a few right on her own. She sits in the same place as we work on the Bob Books. I’m just waiting to sit down one day and have Lydia start sounding out words.
This little phenomenon has also forced me to look at how I teach KTRose things and realize that sometimes I make it too much work. I make it a process with rules and goals. If Lydia can pick up counting just by being around it - I wonder how many other things BOTH girls could learn the same way.
Some of that is reflected in the decisions I’m making next year for our Homeschool plan. Phonics and reading will have no set “curriculum.” I can’t stomach spending $200 for something we could do just as well on our own. I am just going to keep working with controlled phonics books, reading with KTRose. I have “Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons” that I’m sure will be used as reference for introducing new concepts like blends and weird letters like ‘Y’, but besides that, lets just relax a little here!
Science also will be no set “curriculum” and that is her favorite subject! It being her favorite is one of the best reasons in my mind not to use a curriculum at this age. She loves it, she’ll do more than any program asks of her easily (finished Sonlight’s program by beginning of March this year) so I’ll just set up my own Life Science Outline guide. We’ll read as much as we want in each area, we’ll study whatever animals of each type and do whatever projects and field trips the girls are excited about. I already know for KTRose this will be all bugs, turtles, and eagles, for Lydia I predict horses, whales and lizards… varied interests these little ones. They’ll probably learn more than any set program and like it a whole lot more.
We are using Curricula for other subjects, but even those I want to be relax about a little. It’s amazing to me what these girls will learn if I will just read it to them, talk about it and let them act it out. If it can somehow be learned by putting your sister in a headlock, all the better.
Side Note: best idea to come out of this past year was that my little drama queen needs no tests - stick a camcorder in front of her and as her what she learned and she’ll dramatically recreate circulatory system! She *may* need a little guidance to stay on topic, but she’ll do anything to be on tape.
That’s all for now. Just something I’ve been mulling over. Later!